What's Worse: Being a Gay Male or a Heterosexual Female?

I'm still enfeebled by my sickness, and this is why I can't read anything very complex or demanding of intellectual investment.  Not reading anything at all is out of the question, so I picked up Neil McKenna's The Secret Life of Oscar Wilde. I will post the review of the book when I'm finished, but for now I wanted to discuss the differences between the oppression of gay men and of heterosexual